Nor would I lead someone on to get a dinner or treat if I did not like him and want to be with him. Had you agreed to be his girlfriend back then, we suspect this may not have happened at all. Neither of us were seeing anyone else and we were spending weekends together.
Sure, she wasn't blameless, but you were waaaay out there, too. My point is, lack of clear communication, vastly different levels of intentions, mutual understanding of where you both were in the relationship and its progression were the death knoll of this relationship from the start. Email your relationship problems to features ukmetro. You can do it. I can casually date, one guy, but don't want to have sex with multiple partners. That's how it goes in the beginning until you find someone you want more with. About eight months in, we made it official but I found out recently that, six months in, he slept with someone else and, possibly, another person three months in. I don't want to be wined and dined by a man that is wining and dining two or three other women. Edited on May 3, at Or they can stick close to one woman to ensure that her children are his. But I would appreciate honesty so I can move on. It aint abt money for me, it's about integrity and respect, for me, and whom I am with. Had you agreed to be his girlfriend back then, we suspect this may not have happened at all. Worse still, you've now commenced revenge, so at least 2 people are being used -- you and the girl you recently used as a sexual dumping ground for you own self-pity, presumably so you can eventually say "nah-nah-nah-boo-boo' to the first girl you believe did you wrong. Kicked her to the curb immediately. Would you be offended if the girl was being treated to dinners by another man, but was sleeping only with you? If she wants to date someone else, I have nothing against that. So, it would be much, much, much more productive to simply end all this. Even if she cries, it'll most likely be from the temporary shock that you're that kind of person. Many men want casual sex and multiple partners or FWB so women now are more used to multi-dating, having diff. What do you think? I don't need an STD because of someone's desire for variety. I had a situation where the girl I was seeing was sleeping with someone at the same time I was dating her. Ironically, your ex-gf will likely be the least damaged by your antics in the long-run. Because once you let her know how you got back at her by using other innocent women to intentionally take revenge, she's going to consider herself having dodged a bullet to have you out of her life. I personally, lately, have met men who clearly want casual sex, etc with me, and want it with others, they don't want a relationship.
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